Has anyone else got medical info from their b-mothers without having contact later. where they willing?
has anyone got medical info from their b-mothers without having contact with her after? where they willing to give it to you knowing that you didn’t want contact? how did you go about asking them that?
yes im adopted, i just don’t really know how to ask my birth mother this the right way.
i’m 16 just incase you need to know
no i don’t owe myself or my mother anything, i belive all birth parents owe their kids at least that info
I gave my son medical information without being asked. We did have contact for 5 years but reunion broke down last year. It is me who is unwillingly to have contact now.
Just be honest with your natural mother that you only want medical information for the time being. It’s up to her whether she gives you this or not. You may change your mind in the future and want contact so make it clear you don’t want contact now.
I gave my son medical information without being asked. We did have contact for 5 years but reunion broke down last year. It is me who is unwillingly to have contact now.
Just be honest with your natural mother that you only want medical information for the time being. It’s up to her whether she gives you this or not. You may change your mind in the future and want contact so make it clear you don’t want contact now.
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I think you owe it to yourself to find out more about yourself than just "medical."
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My daughter’s birth mother provided us with her complete medical history. I think a lot of adoption agencies require it.
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My bmom refused to share medical info even through a confidential intermediary. My bdad agreed to contact, but told me numerous lies about family medical history.
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