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Comment on Should I allow my wife to work? by abcdefg

abcdefg — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 16:08:59 +0000

Dont marry her. With this thoughts and opinions u will not be happy with her even what u r thinking is wrong. Dont worry being 31 is not so old. Search for other allainces
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Comment on Should I allow my wife to work? by neeltrivedirock

neeltrivedirock — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 15:29:59 +0000

First thing you should do is rephrase your question as it is NOT your job to "allow" her to do anything, it should be her own choice.

Secondly, if you think this whole issue is a conspiracy and have all these doubts, then why would you even consider getting married to her? Just forget about it and it’ll make life a lot easier for you.

As far as the young guys around you getting married, why should you care what they do? You should worry about what’s best for you and not anybody else. Don’t give age a priority when thinking about marriage, just wait for the right person to come along.
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Comment on Should I allow my wife to work? by Sweet_Di

Sweet_Di — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 15:02:59 +0000

OMG if your wife wants to work she can work she don;t need your permission..
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Comment on Should I allow my wife to work? by www mittalji.com

www mittalji.com — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 14:38:59 +0000

Allow her to choose. My wife was working at time of engagement / wedding. After pregnancy she asked my choice. She left the job with my suggestion. I have to hear all every day. She is still interested in job and feel sorry without job. I suggested her that for his safety, relax but I am not relaxed.
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Comment on Should I allow my wife to work? by Knowledge

Knowledge — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 13:53:59 +0000

Nope, tie her up to the kitchen table!
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Comment on Should I allow my wife to work? by student

student — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 13:23:59 +0000

Listen here,i think you are the same guy I read about on Answers sometime back too.I sensed something fishy around you then but forgot to write to you.I think,things are no good even now with you.Firstly,please you need to get out of that house of tormentors which is possible only if you become self sufficient which is inturn next to impossible if you loose your confidence.Because you have a modest income i would like to advice you to start on with MNM.My parents are into it and are doing great.Ofcourse it is no magical income generating but in a matter of 2 to 3 yrs you have a regular inflow of money and in a maximum of next one yr or so you start getting royalty which means you have security to ensure smooth sailing in times of crisis.For instance,God forbid any accident or even if you are not there,the people who depend on you won’t be struck that hard financially.Other benefits are ,getting more time for yourself and the people around you,no reporting to a boss,time multiplication etc.That’s just a suggestion anyways.Please understand that nobody is a junk.Afterall God didn’t make his people in slots of good days and bad days deciding to send junk on days he didn’t like to work on.He is not like us.Every person made by him has been crafted to perfection.Man is his best creation as it is said.And I am sure you are another very special creation of his’.Why do you think you are not a good performer?Is it because you expect too much out of yourself or is it because these rascals have engraved it in your mind?If the former is the reason,then probably its because your heart is somewhere else and even though you have immense potential you are not giving in your 100% and knowing this very fact makes you upset.But if latter is the case,then please for God sake let them not do this to you.They have no right to crush you down.You are 31 and though not old as you think but still a nice 14 yrs elder to me falling into this magical bracket of young Indians who reserve the power to do anything and everything!You have a free will to do what you like and to achieve what you want.How can you let yourself be so miserable?Get out on the front,fight it out.You are a born winner who cannot loose.Please realize that only you have the power to change what you get.Make things shape up the way you want them to and not vice versa.And don’t marry this girl now!I have no idea of whether they are playing any cards or not but even if they are not doing it you need to first be able to take your responsiility and then somebody elses.Don’t rush into things.Lastly i want to make a sincere request to you of seeing an honest friend or anybody who you think can lift you up at this moment.Speak out to them.It helps a lot!Now I have an exam tomorrow which is making me stop here but I hope I could do little good to you.Remember that you have all to make it and also all to break it.Just a matter of choice.
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Comment on Should I allow my wife to work? by reyhame123

reyhame123 — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 12:36:59 +0000

let her work for herself don't let women stay at home or you will lose your mind
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Comment on Should I allow my wife to work? by Steven K

Steven K — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 11:49:59 +0000

The main problem is that eastern women who just sit at home can get fat, ugly, boring, dumb and unhealthy. So I would let her to go to work, even if she can have some chat or else with other men. The life will be more interesting.
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Comment on Should I allow my wife to work? by Maya

Maya — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 11:36:59 +0000

You dont own your wife she is a person not a possession – she can work if she wants too. Dont dictate to her what she can and cant do or you will end up with someone who secretly despises you when you could of had a lover and a friend. And stop being paranoid – try trusting others everyone is not out to get you. Im sure if she is marrying you that she loves you – so treat her well and you will have a faithful companion for life and trust her to pusue her own goals and she will love you all the more for it.
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Comment on Should I allow my wife to work? by misty

misty — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 11:20:59 +0000

I think you should let your wife work, if you do not, then it will be stopping her from doing something that she wants to do and that she has a passion to do.

Plus, it will also help earn extra income for you and her when and if you decide to have a family.

You are your own person, and so is your wife, respect that, she respects your wishes, it is time to respect hers.

I volunteer at my daughter’s school in the morning, I cut out at 11:00 am, to go swimming, then I go back to her school from 2:00-4:00 to finish the day, I do not get paid, but this is something I really enjoy, I love the people, the children, and just doing something good to make a difference.

It fulfills my life, I think this is something your wife wants also, something to fill that "void" in her life, and I think you should let her do it.

My husband lets me do mine, and if I did not have his loving support, I do not know what I would do.

It all comes down to respecting each-other and being there for each-other and supporting each-other.

Once your wife gets your support, it will pull your marriage closer.
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16 years of marriage, going on 17!!

Peace,
Misty